Last week, Dr. Gary Newman was on Good Day NY promoting his new book, The Truth About Cheating. During his interview, he listed these 4 signs of a cheating spouse:
- More time away,
- Less sex,
- Avoids contact and cell phone calls, and
- Starts fights and increases criticism.
He also listed 4 ways to prevent cheating include:
- Work on increasing the emotional connection,
- Spend time together on a daily basis,
- Schedule date nights, and
- Monitor friends.
What I know about cheating is that the real problem in the relationship started long before the cheating. Cheating is just the symptom.
When a couple is in a good place i.e. when both individuals are feeling respected, engaged, and wanted, cheating can’t happen. If you aren’t in a good place with each other, then cracks (in a relationship) happen and . . . if cracks happen, then cheating is a very real risk . . . regardless of how much you both may love each other.
Tags: Adultery, Dating, Intimacy, Relationships, Sex, Taking Time
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